Buffalo Mindfulness Community sponsors new group, plans retreat – Buffalo alternative medicine

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The Buffalo Mindfulness Community now has a sister group, Buffalo Mindfulness North. The first meeting of the group will take place Thursday, October 28 at Saint Andrew’s Church. St. Andrew’s is located at 3017 Main Street, near Lisbon in University Heights.

The doors will open at 7:00 PM. Meditation will begin at 7:30. Two rounds of sitting and walking meditation will be followed by either an audio Dharma talk or another round of sitting. The group ends at 9:00. Buffalo Mindfulness North replaces the Wednesday evening Daemen College meeting. Daemen will continue to host the Sunday meeting of the Awakening Community at Rosary Hall.

Friday, November 19, will begin a retreat. The Friday evening talk will begin at 7:30 PM, and the Saturday events will begin at 9:30 AM and end at 5:30 PM. The guest is Shinzen, who will speak about “Unity and Diversity within the Buddhist Practice Traditions.”

There is no cost for the program, and a vegetarian lunch will be provided. Donations are welcomed.…

How to Get a Better Night of Sleep

How to Get a Better Night of Sleep

Before I had kids I had some great habits and routines. I ate properly, woke up at 4:30 every morning, exercised hard and often, accomplished so much in my work life that my income soared, and still had plenty of time for fun and relaxation. Somewhere along the road I lost it all.  But I know how to get it back.

The road along which I “lost it” is a little path you might have heard of called PARENTHOOD. All my schedules and routines were immediately crushed by the needs of the little people I adopted who were neither aware of my house rules, nor did they care. I slept, ate, cleaned house, and socialized when they allowed it.  I lost my business. I lost my mind and I gained weight.

It has taken five years to get my children and family healthy, happy, and adjusted. I guess I just expected my healthy habits and fit body to return as well. It didn’t.

Now I knew that what was missing was my good habits, routines and scheduling and I tried to recapture all that but I kept getting sabatoged by exhaustion.  I attributed it to stress, to lack of exercise, to staying up too late, etc. But then I remembered my old sleep strategy!  And my life has changed.

The strategy is based on planning your sleep around your body’s natural sleep cycles. Remember when we learned in school about REM (rapid eye movement) and the different phases of sleep? The body sleeps in 90 minutes cycles which are broken down into different phases. For our purposes here we can explain those cycles into 3 phases as follows.

*65 minutes of normal, non REM sleep.

*20 minutes of REM sleep, the very deepest sleep, when dreams occur.

*5 more minutes of of non REM sleep.

That 90 minute cycle is followed by a brief period of almost consciousness as your body prepares for the next 90 minute cycle.  You are very easily disturbed at this point and easily awakened. If you plan your wake up call for this moment in your sleep “limbo” you will have the most energetic, refreshing, productive day possible.

It is easy to do.You still want to shoot for 8 hours of sleep.  6 is really the bare minimum and 12 is too much. Keeping those parameters in mind, along with what time you must get up in the morning to be on time at work or school or wherever your day takes you, count backwards in 90 minute increments to find your optimum bed time.

For example. I like to get up at 4:30.  Sounds crazy right?  But it gives me 2 hours to workout, tidy up the house and simply enjoy some quiet before the kids get up for school. So from 4:30 I count backward in 90 minute increments… 4:30 to 3:00, (1.5 hours, definitely not enough sleep) 3:00 to 1:30 (3 hours, no way!) 1:30 to 12:00 (5.5 hours is still not enough), 12 to 10:30 (7 hours is pretty good. I can handle that if it was a late night of homework with the kids or I rented a good movie) 10:30 to 9:00. (8.5 hours of sleep! Perfect!).  So my routine is to be asleep by 9 but I know that if I don’t make it until 10:30 I am in good shape too.  By the same token, if I am out very late and don’t get home until the wee hours I would tweek my wake up time to accomodate that 90 minute cycle even if it means 30 minutes less of sleep. Because I know that extra 30 minutes is not going to be as beneficial to me respecting my body’s natural sleep patterns.

I discovered this 90 minute sleep cycle strategy when I was 24 from an amazing and new age-ish co-worker who went on to enrich my life for years with her unconventional wisdom. I used the strategy until I was 35 and went into new mom “just-trying-to-survive” mode. While using the sleep strategy I never had to use an alarm clock, regardless of what time I went to bed.  After years without using the strategy I didn’t even hear my alarm clock and I woke up sick and groggy every day despite how early I went to bed.

I don’t know what made me remember the strategy, but I am so glad I did.  I suppose it was from finally getting my adopted children settled and coming out of a few years of intensity and challenge. The 90 minute sleep rule changed my life once before and I am enjoying watching it transform my life once again.…

Sleeping and insomnia: how to have a great night sleep

Sleeping and insomnia: how to have a great night sleep

Having a good night sleep is important so that you can wake up fresh the next day and be ready for your day. Trouble sleeping is not a great thing for most of us. You’ll have trouble sleeping if you have a medical condition and pain could be keeping you awake. There

some people that will have trouble sleeping from time to time due their particular body response.

You can do several things to help you out in getting a good night sleep. One of those is to exercise or walk around before you go to bed. It works well. When you’re tired you’re most likely to fall asleep better.

The next thing is to avoid drinking coffee, green tea or any drinks that have caffeine in it because it’ll keep you awake. You will want to drink water around bedtime. Coffee will keep you awake for a long time.

The next thing that you can do is to not eat a lot before going to bed. When you eat a lot you can get tire and agitated and feel bad and you will have trouble falling asleep. You’ll get a headache sometimes too.

Next thing that you can do is to keep your room dark and quiet. Keep all noise down in the house. Play soft jazz music to keep neighbor’s noise level down. If you sleep with someone and their snoring or movement is keeping you awake then you should sleep by yourself.…

Boost Your Focus by Using Mindfulness Exercises

Boost Your Focus by Using Mindfulness Exercises

Unfortunately the Internet, the greatest information tool of our time also creates the biggest distraction possible. However, there is an exercise you are able to practice to increase your concentration and make it razor sharp. If your concentration is horrible consider mindfulness exercises.

Unfortunately the Internet, the greatest information tool of our time also creates the biggest distraction possible. With the number of devices all of us have together with the always on attitude it’s become so difficult to concentrate on anything for more than a few minutes. For anybody wanting to be more productive this is a serious problem.

Focus

To make this situation even more difficult, add in a thing called multi tasking. Multi tasking is yet another buzzword, however a lot of people have seen that starting lots of things at once doesn’t mean completing all of them. Now we have multiple things all wanting our attention at once, now our concentration is really shot..

However, there is an exercise you are able to practice to increase your concentration and make it razor sharp. If your concentration is horrible consider mindfulness exercises.

Take away don’t add

When you concentrate on one task at a time you can do a higher quality job and actually complete that task. The important thing here is concentration. Being able to concentrate on a single thing at a time is a skill, that takes practice. Concentrating on one thing at a time is one of key principals of meditation, additionally it is something you can practice with mindfulness exercises.

If you fight to sit still for 2 minutes, you need to develop you concentration. To accomplish this you need to practice some mindfulness exercises.

Be in the moment

The very nature of mindfulness is to entirely focus on one thing at a time, or to be totally “in the moment”. You may have discovered this once or twice when listening to a song, or doing something where you’ve lost track of time. Focusing on one thing may seem simple however it’s far from it.

Try this experiment

Next time you’re at the office, try to work on a document solidly for 10 minutes. Try to focus only on the document and don’t do any of the following things:

  • Answer the phone
  • Check Facebook
  • Send an SMS
  • Reply to the outlook pop up
  • Send or receive any messages from any type of system
  • Respond to a walk up or talk to a colleague

This will be impossibly hard. Why? Simply because there will literally be many distractions. It will take a lot of practice to master this. The power of learning this is incredibly useful in a work environment. If you’re able to focus on one thing at a time you will find your level of productivity explode.At home it’s understandable there will be an enormous amount of distraction. If however you can find only a couple of minutes every day to practice concentrating on one thing you’ll easily recognise the benefits.

Using mindfulness exercises to get the job done

With more experience you’ll find you’ll be able to concentrate on things longer and sharpen your focus into a precision laser able to cut through tasks with ease. This is simply an example of mindfulness exercises. Why not learn more about mindfulness exercises and how they could help you!…

X-Inactivation in Chromosomes: Mosaicism in Females Lessens Instance of X-Linked Diseases

X-Inactivation in Chromosomes: Mosaicism in Females Lessens Instance of X-Linked Diseases

Chromosomes encapsulate DNA and are responsible for every physical aspect and a host of personality traits of every human body. Humans have 23 pairs of chromosomes. Men and women have all the same types of chromosomes, except one vital pair. In women the last pair will be XX. In men the last pair will be XY. Whether or not the last chromosome pair is XX or XY is determined by the male sperm.

Human Genome Project

The quest for the map of human chromosomes was started in 1990. Surprisingly, the project was fully completed in May 2006. The results have already poured mounds of new information about genetics into the biology world.

For instance, one thing determined was that the X chromosome has many more genes than the Y chromosome. Due to less genetic material from their fathers, males are 6% more genetically similar to their mothers. Male twins are also slightly more identical than female twins due to less genetic information, according to Natalie Angiers, in her book Woman: An Intimate Geography.

X and Y Chromosomes

According to the U.S. National Library of Medicine, it was determined that the Y chromosome contains about 70+ genes. The X chromosome carries about 2,500 genes, and is responsible for about 300 specific diseases, including colorblindness, prostate cancer, hemophilia, baldness, Duchenne muscular dystrophy and many mental retardations, as reported by Jai Dennison at Daily News Central, in his article, “X-Chromosome Studies Unlock Deep Mysteries About Gender Differences.” Women are less likely to suffer from these X-linked genetic diseases due to what is called X-inactivation.

X-inactivation and Mosaicism

When two X chromosomes come together to create a female embryo, X inactivation occurs. During X-inactivation, cells randomly chooses to “shut down” sections of its extra X chromosome to form a “mosaic” of genes.

Consequently, X-linked diseases are more common in men than women, since women have both Mom’s and Dad’s X genes to pull from. Scientists are still discerning just how “random” the X-inactivation process is. Philip Avner and Edith Heard’s article “X-Chromosome Inactivation: Counting, Choice and Initiation” discusses interesting research in this area. Similar to the reason that tortoise-shell cats can only be female, X-inactivation creates a mosaic of X-linked traits in women but not in men, who are subject their single X’s full expression.

Inheritance and the X Chromosome

Because men only have one X chromosome, men may inherit their mother’s genetic diseases related to the X chromosome but will never inherit their father’s X-linked genetic diseases, since men only receive their father’s Y chromosome. While men escape any X-linked diseases from their father, they are vulnerable to and likely to fully develop any of the X-linked diseases given to them on their mother’s X chromosome.

In contrast, women’s double X requires that both parents have a gene an X-linked disease and even then severity of inherited disease will likely vary due to the fact that during female development random sections of the X-chromosome are inactivated. A woman is less likely to develop X-linked diseases, and more likely to develop a light instance if a disease should develop.

In conclusion, nature appears to have a “back up plan” for women through X-inactivation, while unlucky men must suffer the full severity of X-linked diseases.…

How to Cope With Sleep Apnea

More and More people are being diagnosed with sleep apnea, a problem where you actually are not breathing for periods during the night. I am not a medical professional and will not attempt to explain the reasons why this is happening, but the treatment is usually a machine that is used to keep the air passages open to allow for deep, uninterrupted sleep. There are various types of facial masks used, depending on the need. But, for most everyone, especially those using masks that cover mouth and nose or even the whole face, it requires some adjustment and patience.

While not a medical professional, I am mentioning some things that were helpful to me as I experienced this adjustment. The good news is that it is worth the trouble! You may not realize how little rest you have had until you know what it is to deeply and soundly sleep. For many, like myself, with a serious sleep apnea, it can be life-changing!

Instructions Things You’ll Need:

  • Doctor’s care and administration of a sleep test for apnea
  • Doctor’s prescription of machine and machine settings.
  • a PATIENT Medical equipment person to help yhou achieve success.
  1. Step 1

Listen carefully to what your doctors’ and technicians say to you. And don’t hesitate to call them back with questions and problems. At your sleep test, you may begin treatment or determination of prescriptions. IN this setting, a prescription is the setting for your machine. Depending on your severity, the higher settings require a machine that breathes in and out since it would be difficult to exhale against the very high pressure. Usually, they will work you up gradually to the higher pressure. Also the machine has a ramp where it increases from a lower setting as you fall off to sleep.

  1. Step 2

Don’t forget to use distilled water in your machine. not Bottled water but distilled. VERY IMPORTANT> I found that I do better with the heat setting on; I thought I wouldn’t since I am hot all the time with menopausal hot flashes. But, the heat setting seems to be soothing and opens up the airways some. I was having trouble using mine until I turned the heat on.
**Be careful when transporting your machine to empty out the water reservoir first…….It leaks everywhere!(experience)

  1. Step 3

At first it feels very uncomfortable to have the air blowing in your face. Small sessions at a time are good, while watching a favorite tv program or listening to a book on tape. I like to listen to foreign language tapes. It is best not to focus on the actual mechanics of breathing.

  1. Tips & Warnings
  • THE MOST important thing…..Continue to explore different masks with your professional equipment person until you find the correct mask and the correct size and fit. I was ready to give up when my technician brought me the GEL mask. It was perfect for me. It was lightweight, and had a different feel from the hard plastic. It meant the difference in my chunking the whole thing!
  • Some folks just have a nose mask….it is not as comfortable as oxygen..it has to go all the way up in your nose and seal the nostrils. A friend has this and is very comfortable, but I hated it. I am a mouth breather and they didn’t feel the effectiveness was going to be there anyway, but the high pressure makes the nose thing feel awful like your nose is exploding! My technician said that it was mainly for folks with lower pressures, or less air coming at you.
  • But, just keep on bothering them till they find you one that is comfortable and effective. When I found the gel mask, which is the one most people get she said, I was unable to even use my machine at all.
  • Whatever you have to do to follow your doctor’s directives, do it. Not doing it can permanently damage your heart. And besides long-term issues, once you get a good few hours on it, you will wake up and go WOW…is this how other people feel every day? Prior to my machine I had experienced about 4-6 weeks of little or no sleep. So it was like a GODsend.

How to Survive Sleeping With a Snoring Partner

1 Put a pillow over your head to drown out the noise You've looked forward to getting back to bed since you arose in the early morning. Ahhh, all settled in, and what is that horrible noise you hear? Oh no! How are you going to survive another night with "the snorer". He's oblivious to your pain. He's already out, mouth hanging open and horrible sounds emanating from his throat. You think about the dreadful things you want to do to him . But you can't, because 1st, you don't want to spend the rest of your life in a jail cell, and secondly you have to find a civil solution to this. Try pushing him and tell him to 'roll-over'. It didn't work? Put your pillow overtop your own head, even though you'd rather put it overtop his head!

Step2
Sleeping peacefully on the couch Still not working? Nudge him again. No response? The couch is the next step. Either him or you, it's got to be done. Send him packing to the couch, or the spare bedroom. Sleep deprivation is unhealthy for you also.

Step3
Pillow fight for your health You're feeling even more disturbed, because through the walls of your house, you can still hear that, that, that,,man sound again! Do something constructive. If he's going to keep you awake, then all is fair in love and war. Wake him up with a pillow fight!! The kind you had with your sisters or brothers when you were young! This may relieve some of the stress and tension and maybe even be fun.

Step4
C-Pap Machine saves lives Make a Doctor appointment for your spouse to have a sleep study test done. This only takes a phone call, and it will be better for his health and yours if he goes away for one night to be studied. He may have sleep apnea, and this could be causing him to stop breathing, and then he grabs a long breath and a loud wretched snore. In the long run, you will have a happier, healthier, safer life with your spouse, because you'll both be getting the proper sleep you need. Do this instead of divorcing him. He can't help he's got a problem, and this is a 'fix-it' kind of thing in a marriage! This I know personally. This is how I kept from having him euthanized! I do mean some of this in jest, but really, sleep apnea is jeopardizing his health…

The Cost of Eating Organic

The Cost of Eating Organic

I have struggled with the organic food prices for awhile. On the one hand I would love to only eat organic foods and foods and groceries from local farmers. I want to support my local economy and businesses. However, I have four children and the portions are ridiculously small for a family of five. There is barely enough in one package for two of my children, let alone all four of them. I realize they are smaller for a reason and there is less processing, which is great. They are natural, fewer additives and preservatives, and more natural vitamins and minerals in them. However, none of that does any good if the portion is so small it will never fill my children or myself up. Compound the small sizes with the grossly high prices. Again, I realize the prices are higher because they are not made in bulk, they do come from private farmers, and they are not processed foods. But, again the size is bad enough, but the price is like being slapped in the face. Reason one as to why I rarely eat organic or feed my children organic foods. As much as I would like to at times and I think that maybe somehow they would get something more by me doing so, I simply can not afford it.

Then there is the other problem I do have with organic foods, that besides the extremely high prices and very tiny portions, is that some of the foods are just not very good. Now I know that my taste buds are not use to organic foods and that maybe over time they would adapt to all natural foods, versus highly processed foods. However, explaining why the cereal does not taste the same to a 2 year old is a loosing battle. As for myself, it just does not taste good and as much as I know that I will get over that at some time, the small portions and high prices, make swallowing the food even harder. Reason number two as to why I don’t buy more organic foods.

I guess when it really comes down to it, I would love to buy organic, but I also realize that I can’t afford it, the portions are not reasonable and the quality just is not there. Paying a higher price does not always mean better quality either. Many foods can be listed as organic, because the rules for organic foods are not that strict and the standards are not that high. I just am not willing to pay those prices for organic foods. My family is too large and realistically it just is not good money management to spend three times the going price for food items, because their package says organic.…

Psychic Meditation for Telekinesis Training – Learn to be Psychic

Psychic Meditation for Telekinesis Training – Learn to be Psychic

While meditation is still fairly new to the Western world, it has long been practiced in the Eastern world. One discovery made is that meditation can help develop psychic powers. One of those powers is telekinesis which is the ability to move an object with the mind.

A very popular form of telekinesis has been spoon bending, popularized by Jack Houck. However, for now, let’s start with something more simple.

How to Be Psychic

When working on psychic development, practice is very important. In one way or another, psychic abilities involve the mind. In order to keep the mind clear, use meditation as a tool. Meditation can also play a key role when trying to learn telekinesis.

Psychic Meditation

When learning how to do telekinesis, start with trying to move a lightweight object. For this experiment, use a small pencil. Place a piece of paper on the table. Put a small pencil on the piece of paper. Trace the pencil on the paper in order to track its movement.

It’s best to already know basic meditation in order to use meditation for telekinesis development. Otherwise, the following meditation may not be successful. If you have never meditated before, learn some of the basics in the articles Sitting Meditation and Breathing Meditation.

Telekinesis Training

Begin by staring at the pencil. Make sure you burn the image into your mind. Now, sitting with good posture, allow your eyes to close and start taking relaxing, deep, slow long breaths. Clear your mind of all thoughts. Once you feel relaxed and focused, envision the pencil in your mind.

Using your mind only, try to roll the pencil. Visualize the pencil physically moving. Imagine part of your energy being transferred to the pencil in order to help it move. When you think you were able to psychically see the pencil move, end the meditation, open your eyes and see if you were successful.

Don’t be disappointed if nothing happened. Meditation skills and psychic development both take time and practice. An alternative to this experiment is to use a feather. Caution needs to be taken that you are far enough away from the feather that your breathing doesn’t cause it to move.

Many forms of psychic skills can be learned with the aid of meditation. Psychic meditation is a great way to try to learn telekinesis. Long practiced in the Eastern world, meditation can help develop other psychic abilities as well.…

How to Realize Reasons Not to Sleep with a Virgin

How to Realize Reasons Not to Sleep with a Virgin


First, sleeping with a virgin will require more prep work. A virgin will not know what to expect her first time. This means you will have to do some prep work to make sure that she is comfortable with everything. The older she is, the harder it’ll be to sleep with her. Imagine, if she has kept her virginity well into her 20s, it should be that much harder to persuade her into sleeping with you.

Step2

Next, there is a very high chance of a freak out. The potential of her freaking out before or after sex is very high. She might decide at the last minute to wait after marriage or because she might experience guilt feelings. If the slightest thing doesn’t go right, chances are she’ll tear up and become emotional. Save her virginity and do us a favor.

Step3

Another reason not to sleep with a virgin is because she might become attached to you. It’s fairly likely that if you devirginize a woman, you’ll be expecting to have a long relationship together. Very few girls imagine that a guy would drop simply after sharing intimate time together.

Step4

Then, a great reason to avoid having sex with a virgin is because she might lack the skills. Since she’s unexperienced, she will most likely not be so good in bed.

Step5

Lastly, sleeping with a virgin might become really messy! Being penetrated the first time is likely to hurt her and result in some bleeding.…